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we plan to get married in the kh in the autumn.
will the elders quiz us as to whether we have had sex beforehand?.
She does not believe in the Witnesses. Although she was brought up a Witness, she has never been commited.
If shes not baptised I dont think you'll be allowed to get married at a KH anyway.
Avoid all the crap and do something romantic. Run off to Gretna Green and get married up there.
on sunday, one my closest friend's daughter was christened.
after the church service, we went to a small party for about 40 family and friends.
at the venue i noticed an elderly gent wearing a tux, and realised i recognised him from somewhere, but couldn't place him immediately.
Dub making money at a pagan event...Going off on a slight tangent here but I always thought it was well dodgy that Dave Hill backing singer, lead guitarist with Slade should make so much money out of performing "Merry Christmas Everyone", especially when you consider he's an elder.
as some of you may know, i'm still an active witness and i'm still in the planning stages of my "escape".
i met a sister at a district convention a year ago and i've been talking to her on aim for a while.
i think she is very amusing considering that she is very intelligent and often voices her views on the doctrinal falicies of the wtbs, but when its my turn to give my two cents she makes it seem as if i'm the only poztate.
You typed out a great big post about the evils of porno then gave us this gem
Yes, it is my point of view, and I'm sure a sizable number would agree with me were I to ask them outright and present medical and scientifc facts.
where you told us it was your view tried to tell us it was the view of the majority as well and then tried to back up *your* view by claiming it had a credible scientific basis. That sounds like ramming to me?
You need to lighten up pal. Pornography is as old as man and yet last time I looked the worlds still going around, its not come crashing to a stop all because of the evils of pornography.
as some of you may know, i'm still an active witness and i'm still in the planning stages of my "escape".
i met a sister at a district convention a year ago and i've been talking to her on aim for a while.
i think she is very amusing considering that she is very intelligent and often voices her views on the doctrinal falicies of the wtbs, but when its my turn to give my two cents she makes it seem as if i'm the only poztate.
I did not mean to be offensive, but I don't like it when people swear at me or to me.
Awwww I'm sorry mate but I find it equally offensive when people try ramming their views down everybody else's throats and them claim its the view of the majority. Its not, its merely you're own personal view.
as some of you may know, i'm still an active witness and i'm still in the planning stages of my "escape".
i met a sister at a district convention a year ago and i've been talking to her on aim for a while.
i think she is very amusing considering that she is very intelligent and often voices her views on the doctrinal falicies of the wtbs, but when its my turn to give my two cents she makes it seem as if i'm the only poztate.
Dr. JekyllYou and all the subs with you mate - I've said already it's unhealthy, many doctors would agree it can destroy relationships.
Go back under in the swamp you came from - You make this world a cesspit.
Awwww mate thats not very nice. It would seem that you're as immature as your outlook on sex.
Might I also point out that many Drs also say that pornography can kick start a flagging sex life where partners have become slightly bored with the missionary position once a week, same old time same old place.
As someone in the 80's once said... "Imagination, can make a man of you"
what were some film scenes that pleased or horrified you so much that they stayed vivid in your memory for a long time?
the one i always recall is the scene where anthony hopkins (playing as hannibal lector) lobotomised ray liotta (paul krendler) cutting off pieces of his brain and giving them to him to eat.
he also took some of liotta's cooked brain in a plane and gave them to an unsuspecting passenger boy sitting next to him to eat.
Jenny Agutter running around naked in Walkabout. First naked woman I saw.
The beach scene in Saving Private Ryan
The survivors placing stones as a memorial to those who died at the end of Schindler's List
The"little girl" in the yellow rain coat turning around to show her real face in Don't Look Now
as some of you may know, i'm still an active witness and i'm still in the planning stages of my "escape".
i met a sister at a district convention a year ago and i've been talking to her on aim for a while.
i think she is very amusing considering that she is very intelligent and often voices her views on the doctrinal falicies of the wtbs, but when its my turn to give my two cents she makes it seem as if i'm the only poztate.
Yes, it is my point of view, and I'm sure a sizable number would agree with me were I to ask them outright and present medical and scientifc facts.
Dont you just love the way the moral minority think they speak for everyone...
Just for the record I think your point of view is a crock of shit mate.
i knew a number of elder's wives that were nuts.
one in particular used to talk to herself regularly.
From my own personal experience I'd say that all the anointed were barking mad !
We did have one interested person who would sit at the back shooting brothers with his fingers during the public talk, it wouldn't have been so bad if he hadn't had made "BANG !"" noises too.
WT studies were bad too especially if you were on the mikes as he would often reach out for it to answer up and when he was ignored you often feared having a chair chucked at the back of your head.
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we plan to get married in the kh in the autumn.
will the elders quiz us as to whether we have had sex beforehand?.
We plan to get married in the KH in the autumn. Will the elders quiz us as to whether we have had sex beforehand?
Depends on how much of a goody goody you two are within the congregation. Goody goodies don't get asked questions like that especially if either of you are elders kids.
If they do ask you're gonna have to lie (That's assuming you have had sex b4) or you could both end up getting disfellowshipped. If you tell the truth you can count out a wedding at the hall and as someone else has already pointed out everyone else will know why you cant get married in a hall.
If I said no and lied, would that affect the brother's relationship with Jehovah?The reason they wont allow you to get married in the hall if you've been up to no good is that they believe your marriage would soil they hall (its the house of Jehovah after all) So yes you could well end up defiling the temple so to speak. ...That's if you believe such crap. Looks like you have gone from one sticky situation to another. lol
as some of you may know, i'm still an active witness and i'm still in the planning stages of my "escape".
i met a sister at a district convention a year ago and i've been talking to her on aim for a while.
i think she is very amusing considering that she is very intelligent and often voices her views on the doctrinal falicies of the wtbs, but when its my turn to give my two cents she makes it seem as if i'm the only poztate.
But seriously though, is the societies stance on Porn valid? Do relationships really crumble when one of the spouses starts watchin porn?
With normal people unless the grieved partner is very insecure the answer is no. Most adults take it for granted that their partner will find other people sexually attractive, this doesn't mean they are going to go off and have sex with them or that they are going to run off with them, Its eyecandy.
Within Dubhood though watching a porno is a sign that something very wrong is up. People place too much importance upon such a trivial thing. The elders would want to know what kind of porn is being watched in case hes a secret pervert and they'll want to know if the wife / mother is giving up the goodies regularly in case its this lack of sex that's causing the brother to wonder.
Nothing good can come of dobbing the father in to the elders and this nosey self righteous little girl should mind her own beeswax.
